________________ CM . . . . Volume XIII Number 8 . . . .December 8, 2006

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Mia’s Secret.

Peter Ledwon. Illustrated by Peter Ledwon & Marilyn Mets.
Toronto, ON: Tundra, 2006.
24 pp., pbk., $9.99.
ISBN 0-88776-801-6.

Subject Headings:
Child sexual abuse-Juvenile fiction.
Child sexual abuse-Prevention-Juvenile fiction.
Courage-Juvenile fiction.

Preschool-grade 3 / Ages 4-8.

Review by Jeannette Timmerman.

**** /4

   

excerpt:

Mia was very mixed up. She wanted to be his friend. His present made her happy. The secret game made him happy, but it hurt her. Even though it didn't seem right, she said, "Okay."

 

Mia's Secret is the story of a very young girl who is being abused by a male friend of her mother's. Peter Ledwon tells her story with sensitivity, using simple language that evokes the various emotions that Mia experiences.

     The predator gains Mia's trust by pretending to be her friend. He listens to what Mia says, he makes her laugh, he plays her favourite games with her and he brings her presents. After gaining her confidence, he introduces his "special game" which is to be kept a secret. He makes Mia promise not to tell about the game, or he won't show it to her. When Mia says that she must tell Tikki, her teddy bear, he grudgingly allows that but makes her promise not to tell anyone else. The game hurts Mia, and she doesn't like it, but she wants to be his friend even though playing the game seems wrong. The abuse continues. On one occasion, Mia is crying. The man and Mia hear her mother coming. He tells Mia's mother that Mia has hurt her knee. Her mother can't find anything wrong with the knee, and, because it is late, she puts Mia to bed. Another time, Mia tries to tell her mother about the secret game without breaking her promise to the man, but she can't make her mother understand. Her mother thinks she is feeling ill. She puts Mia to bed and lovingly looks after her. In the end, Mia solves the problem. She uses Tikki to tell because Tikki hasn't promised to keep the game secret. There is no indication as to what the mother's reaction and actions are in response to hearing about the abuse. However, just before Tikki "talks," Mom has given Mia and Tikki a big hug and told Mia that she has been worrying about her and asks her if she is okay. She also leans in closer to hear what Tikki is saying. From these actions, it can be assumed that she will get Mia whatever help is needed and will protect her.

internal art      The illustrations by Peter Ledwon and Marilyn Mets are excellent in supporting the story. Mia, her mother and the man have a "doll-like" quality to them. The rooms in the house are uncluttered and appealing. They, too, support the story by showing things to be "normal" so children should be safe when, in fact, Mia isn't. Colours are bold in the action areas and more muted in the backgrounds. The body language depicted in the pictures adds to the emotional impact of the book. The difference in size between the man and Mia is emphasized. For example, the man's hand is huge when he grabs Mia's slight arm from elbow to wrist when he is angry because she has told him to go away so they won't play the secret game.

      This book can be used by parents and professionals to teach children how to stay safe and prevent being abused or to help a child tell the harmful "secret" if abuse has occurred. The book is endorsed by The Gatehouse®, a Child Abuse Investigation and Support Site. Part of the proceeds from the sale of this book will go to fund this site.

Highly Recommended.

Jeannette Timmerman is a former teacher, consultant and administrator in the Winnipeg (MB) School Division.

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